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		<title>Ruhi&#8217;s smile: Bringing hope from uncertainty through compassionate cleft care</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Ruhi arrived on a quiet morning in a small village in North 24 Pargana, West Bengal, when the air was still cool, and the world felt unhurried. She was the second daughter in a humble home, and her parents had walked into that day carrying the memory of their first child’s easy birth. They expected [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Ruhi arrived on a quiet morning in a small village in North 24 Pargana, West Bengal, when the air was still cool, and the world felt unhurried. She was the second daughter in a humble home, and her parents had walked into that day carrying the memory of their first child’s easy birth. They expected the same gentle beginning.</p>



<p>But when Ruhi was placed in her mother’s arms, the room changed. The joy that had been rising like a song caught in the throat. Faces tightened, voices softened, and in the space between one heartbeat and the next, her parents realised something was not as they had imagined. Ruhi had been born with a cleft lip and palate.</p>



<p>They didn’t have words for it. They had never seen anything like this in their family, in their neighbourhood, in their lives. Questions rushed in all at once &#8211; <br><br><em>Will she survive? </em><br><em>Will she ever be able to eat properly? </em><br><em>Will she live a normal life?</em> <br><br>Each question felt heavier than the last. With no answers to hold onto, both mother and father broke down, caught between love for their newborn and the helplessness of not knowing how to protect her.</p>



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<p>Doctors and nurses where Ruhi was born, they tried to steady them. They spoke about the treatment, about surgeries, spread across time and assured them that Ruhi’s condition was treatable. Yet those words, however kind, felt impossibly far away. Ruhi’s father was a daily-wage labourer at a local tiles workshop, counting every rupee. Her mother had rarely stepped beyond the boundaries of her home. In their world, “multiple surgeries” sounded like a distant city they could never reach. <br><br><em>Where would they go? </em><br><em>How would they afford it?</em></p>



<p>Days went by in a restless blur, feeding worries, sleepless nights, and whispered conversations that always ended the same way: with fear. And then, quietly, hope arrived not as a miracle, but as a human hand reaching out.</p>



<p>EBMA Foundation community volunteers connected with the family and introduced them to the EBMA Foundation’s programme team. Soon after, the EBMA Foundation team came to their modest home. They didn’t arrive with just pamphlets or instructions; they brought calm, clarity, and the feeling that Ruhi’s parents did not have to carry this alone.</p>
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<p>They sat with Ruhi’s mother and, step by step, showed her how to feed her baby safely, how to angle her gently, how to pause, how to prevent choking, how to make sure each small feed became strength. They spoke about hygiene, about guarding Ruhi from common infections like cough, cold, and fever, small illnesses that could slow her path to surgery. They checked her growth, supported her nutrition through EBMA’s free nutrition programme, and guided the mother and the family whenever doubt returned.</p>



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<p>Life remained hard, but something inside the family shifted. Ruhi’s parents began to move with purpose instead of panic. Her father worked long hours, carrying more than tiles and tools, carrying the quiet hope that one day his daughter would smile without pain. Her mother poured every moment into Ruhi’s care, learning new ways to hold her, feed her, soothe her, becoming braver with every sunrise. And then the day they had been counting down to through worries, through prayers, through careful routines finally arrived.</p>



<p>At just six months old, Ruhi underwent her cleft lip surgery at the EBMA Foundation’s Kolkata centre, supported by <strong>Muthoot Finance Limited</strong> under the <em><strong>Muthoot Shape a Smile project</strong></em>. What had once felt unreachable became real in a single, trembling moment: hospital lights, waiting-room silence, and two parents holding onto faith because it was all they had.</p>



<p>When Ruhi came out of surgery, her tiny face carried the softness of a new beginning. The gap that had held so much fear and uncertainty was now met with healing and with hope that finally had a shape.</p>



<p>In that moment, her parents stopped seeing only what had frightened them at birth. They began to see the possibility that Ruhi as she could grow, learn, laugh, and belong in every place a child deserves to belong.</p>



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<p>Today, their home feels lighter. The air holds more laughter than silence. Where worry once sat at the centre of every conversation, new dreams have begun to take its place.</p>



<p>Ruhi still has a journey ahead her cleft palate surgery is yet to be done. But this time, her parents no longer feel swallowed by fear. They have a path, they have support, and they know deeply now that they are not alone.</p>



<p>And in Ruhi’s quiet, growing smile is a powerful promise: a future shaped not by what she was born with, but by what she is surrounded by dignity, confidence, and endless possibilities.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[Prerna’s Story: From Hiding to Hope In a small village in Bihar, a little girl named Prerna Kumari was born. She should have been welcomed with songs and blessings. But when her family saw her face, silence filled the room. Prerna had been born with a cleft lip and palate. Instead of celebration, there were [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Prerna’s Story: From Hiding to Hope</h2>



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<p>In a small village in Bihar, a little girl named <strong>Prerna Kumari</strong> was born.</p>



<p>She should have been welcomed with songs and blessings. But when her family saw her face, silence filled the room. <strong>Prerna had been born with a cleft lip and palate.</strong></p>



<p>Instead of celebration, there were whispers. In a community where myths run deep, people looked not at the child, but at the mother.</p>



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<li>“She must have broken a ritual.”</li>



<li>“This is a curse on the family.”</li>
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<p>Her mother carried the weight of blame she did not deserve. Feeding Prerna was a struggle. Milk spilled through her nose, and every meal became a battle between hunger and exhaustion.</p>



<p>Her father, a farm laborer, worked hard but earned little. The thought of expensive treatment in the city seemed like a dream too far away.</p>



<p><strong>For five years, Prerna grew up with her family shielding her from the world, hiding her from curious eyes and cruel comments.</strong></p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Journey: A Ray of Possibility</h2>



<p>One day, a relative told them about a <strong>free cleft surgery mission in Kolkata.</strong></p>



<p>It sounded unbelievable. Could there really be people who would help children like Prerna without asking for money they did not have?</p>



<p>Her parents hesitated but finally borrowed what little they could and began the long journey from Bihar to Kolkata. They carried simple food for the train ride and hearts full of fear.</p>



<p>When they arrived, something unexpected happened. The doctors and volunteers greeted them with kindness, not pity. <strong>For the first time, Prerna’s mother felt her daughter was seen not as a curse, but as a child full of promise.</strong></p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Surgery: The First Smile</h2>



<p>In November 2024, <strong>Prerna underwent her first surgery.</strong></p>



<p>When her parents saw her after the operation, they were speechless. The tear on her lip was gone. <strong>Her face now carried the smile they had always dreamed of.</strong></p>



<p>Her mother held her tightly, crying tears she had been holding back for five long years. “You are my Prerna,” she whispered. “My inspiration.”</p>



<p>Back in the village, everything changed. Neighbors who once avoided them now came asking questions. The whispers were no longer about blame, but about hope.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Recovery: A New Beginning</h2>



<p>A few months later, Prerna returned for her palate surgery. Once again, the team treated her with dignity and care, restoring not just her smile, but her ability to eat and speak with ease.</p>



<p><strong>Today, Prerna is thriving.</strong> She enjoys her meals, plays outside with the other children, and is beginning to speak words clearly. She laughs often, smiles freely, and no longer hides behind her mother’s sari.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Transformation: A Family Reborn</h2>



<p>For her father, who once bowed his head in shame, <strong>there is now pride.</strong><br>For her mother, who once carried the burden of blame, <strong>there is now joy.</strong><br>And for Prerna, <strong>there is a future filled with possibility.</strong></p>



<p>This is not just surgery. <strong>It is dignity restored. It is shame broken. It is the freedom to smile.</strong></p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Be Part of the Change</h2>



<p><strong>You can be part of this change.</strong> For every Prerna, there are hundreds of children in Bihar and across India still waiting &#8211; still being blamed, still suffering, still hoping someone will come.</p>



<p>When you give, <strong>you don’t just fund a procedure. You change a life. You change a family. You change a community.</strong></p>



<p>Support us and give every child what they deserve &#8211; <strong>a chance to smile.</strong></p>



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		<title>A Day That Changed Me — My First Medical Mission</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2025 09:26:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Author: EBMA foundationDate: July 2025Tags: Volunteer Stories Have you ever stepped into a place full of strangers and walked out feeling like family?That’s what happened to me on a crisp November morning in 2024. I was volunteering at my very first cleft medical mission.I’d just had a quick breakfast and reported at 8 AM, not fully [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p style="border-radius:52px;margin-top:286;margin-right:286;margin-bottom:286;margin-left:286"><strong>Have you ever stepped into a place full of strangers and walked out feeling like family?That’s what happened to me on a crisp November morning in 2024.</strong></p>



<p style="margin-top:0;margin-right:0;margin-bottom:0;margin-left:0">I was volunteering at my very first cleft medical mission.<br>I’d just had a quick breakfast and reported at 8 AM, not fully sure what to expect.<br>I started at the registration desk, and within minutes, it was a flood — babies, toddlers, anxious parents, files, forms, questions.</p>



<p>The rush was intense, but every single child had a story worth slowing down for.</p>



<p>We weren’t just collecting data.<br>We were piecing together puzzles:<br>Was this the child’s first surgery?<br>Were there any complications at birth?<br>Any feeding issues?<br>Every question had weight, because the answers could shape the safety and timing of the surgery.</p>



<p>That’s when I met Razak’s mother.<br>She stood quietly in the line, her tiny baby wrapped in a thin towel.<br>She told me — almost apologetically — how feeding was nearly impossible.<br>She had to sit upright and feed him drop by drop.</p>



<p>I listened, noted everything, and gently told her our pediatrician would be able to guide her.<br>That moment, small as it seemed, stayed with me.<br>Her patience. Her exhaustion. Her hope.</p>



<p>Midway through the morning, I was asked to assist Dr. Matt, an American maxillofacial surgeon who needed a translator.<br>Suddenly, I found myself shuttling between medical lingo and village dialects.</p>



<p>It was surprisingly tricky — some spoke deep rural Bengali, others tribal tongues — but I managed.<br>What started as translation quickly turned into comfort-giving.</p>



<p>I explained procedures, reassured parents, and sometimes simply nodded when they cried, because that too is a kind of language.</p>



<p>We all paused around 1 PM for lunch.<br>I helped hand out food packets to families who had been waiting for hours.<br>I still remember the way one child hugged the packet like it was a toy.<br>That was the kind of day it was — full of little heartbreaks and unexpected joys.</p>



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<p>After lunch, I moved to the photo imaging station, where I helped take photographs of the children.<br>These weren’t just for records. They were part of the surgical planning.</p>



<p>I clicked dozens of pictures, trying to capture not just faces — but the hope in their eyes.</p>



<p>In the afternoon, I went looking for Razak and his mother.<br>She had just finished her consultation with the pediatrician and was beaming.<br>“He showed me how to feed him,” she said, her voice trembling with relief.</p>



<p>It was such a small thing — a few minutes with a doctor — but it shifted her entire world.<br>She wasn’t sure if Razak would be approved for surgery yet,<br>but she left that room more confident, more hopeful.</p>



<p>I felt lucky to have witnessed that transformation.</p>



<p>By evening, all the children and parents were waiting again — this time, to hear if they’d been cleared for surgery.</p>



<p>Some were approved, others were asked to wait.<br>Some kids had colds, others didn’t meet the weight requirement.<br>A few had serious underlying conditions.</p>



<p>It was hard to watch — the disappointment, the tears.<br>But the medical team was clear: safety first, always.</p>



<p>At 6 PM, the center began to quiet down.<br>I gave out hugs, took a few selfies with the kids, and promised I’d be back.</p>



<p>And I meant it.</p>



<p>That day, I had come to serve.<br>But somewhere along the way, I had been changed too — by the children, the parents, the doctors, the stories.<br>I left with sore feet, a full heart, and one clear thought:</p>



<p><strong>When’s the next mission? Count me in.</strong></p>



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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2025 16:08:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Author: EBMA foundationDate: June 2025Tags: Cleft Awareness   You’re a new parent. You’ve been dreaming for months about holding your baby, seeing their little yawn, watching them smile. And then the baby is born — but there’s a pause in the room. The nurse calls someone over. There’s whispering. And finally, someone gently tells you: [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p class="p1">You’re a new parent. You’ve been dreaming for months about holding your baby, seeing their little yawn, watching them smile.</p>
<p class="p1">And then the baby is born — but there’s a pause in the room. The nurse calls someone over. There’s whispering. And finally, someone gently tells you: “Your baby has a cleft.”</p>
<p class="p1">You weren’t ready for this. Nobody told you this could happen. You’ve never even heard the word “cleft” before.</p>
<p class="p1">The First Few Weeks Are the Hardest</p>
<p class="p1">Feeding your newborn becomes a daily struggle. Milk comes out of their nose. They cry from hunger but can’t latch. You try special bottles, different positions, everything — but nothing feels enough.</p>
<p class="p1">You watch other babies gain weight, grow chubby cheeks. Yours stays small, weak, often sick. And your heart breaks a little every day.</p>
<p class="p1">People Stare. And Sometimes, They Say the Worst Things</p>
<p class="p1">You take your baby to a relative’s house, and someone asks, “Kya hua iske muh ko?” (What happened to its mouth?) Others whisper behind your back or suggest it’s “karma” or “nazar” (evil eye).</p>
<p class="p1">Some say, “You should hide the child. It’s better for them.”</p>
<p class="p1">Can you imagine? Being told your beautiful child shouldn’t be seen.</p>
<p class="p1">School? Speech? Confidence? Everything Feels Like a Question Mark</p>
<p class="p1">Even if you manage to get through infancy, the challenges don’t stop. Children with cleft struggle with speaking — their words may sound nasal or unclear. Teachers get frustrated. Other kids mock them.</p>
<p class="p1">And when it’s time to apply to school or play in the park, you start worrying, “Will my child be accepted?”</p>
<p class="p1">It’s not just about a gap in the lip — it’s about a lifetime of barriers.</p>
<p class="p1">Now Here’s the Part You Need to Hear: It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way</p>
<p class="p1">There’s a fix. A real, medical, beautiful fix.</p>
<p class="p1">Surgery.</p>
<p class="p1">With the right care — a skilled surgeon, follow-up support, maybe a speech therapist — your child can eat, speak, smile, and thrive. They can be just like any other kid.</p>
<p class="p1">The surgery is short. The smile it brings back? Lifelong.</p>
<p class="p1">But Here’s the Reality — Not Everyone Gets That Chance</p>
<p class="p1">In many parts of India, cleft surgery isn’t available, or it’s too expensive. Families are told to wait. Or worse, they’re told nothing can be done.</p>
<p class="p1">That’s where support from kind-hearted strangers — people who do know better — becomes a lifeline.</p>
<p class="p1">Maybe you’re reading this and thinking, “Wow, I didn’t know.” Now you do. And now you can help make that smile possible.</p>
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		<title>Mithi’s Smile: A Journey From Blame to Belief!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2025 18:43:08 +0000</pubDate>
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									<p class="p1"><strong>Author: EBMA foundation</strong><br /><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">Date: July 2025<br /></span><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">Tags: Cleft Recovery Story</span></strong></p><p class="p1"> </p><p class="p1"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">In the quiet village of Bongaon, a baby named Mithi Mondal was born and silence followed.</span></p><p class="p1">Not joy. Not celebration. Just silence.</p><p class="p1">She was the firstborn of a young couple, and her arrival should have been met with sweets, songs, and blessings. Instead, it brought confusion and whispers.</p><p class="p1">Mithi had been born with a cleft lip and palate.</p><p class="p1">Her mother looked down at her and saw something she hadn’t expected. And the village saw something they didn’t understand.</p><p class="p1">In Bongaon, where myths travel faster than facts, blame came quickly.</p><p class="p1">“She must have looked at the wrong moon.”</p><p class="p1">“Maybe she cooked fish during the eclipse.”</p><p class="p1">“It’s her fault.”</p><p class="p1"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">Mithi’s mother was blamed for something she didn’t cause—and couldn’t fix alone.</span></p><p class="p1"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="p1">Meanwhile, Mithi’s father, like many in the area had to travel to other states to earn a meagre living. Left alone, her mother was surrounded by shame, isolation,</p><p class="p1"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">and a child who cried often but couldn’t be properly fed.</span></p><p class="p1">There were no doctors nearby who could help. No neighbors who would understand. No resources to make the journey feel possible.</p><p class="p1">They searched. Asked. Waited. Knocked on clinic doors.</p><p class="p1">Every answer was the same—Too far. Too expensive. Too late.</p><p class="p1">But her parents didn’t stop looking. Not when they saw her struggle to eat. Not when her cries grew weaker. Not when they had nothing left but hope.</p><p class="p1">Then one day, someone whispered about a chance. A medical mission. A team that helps children like Mithi.</p><p class="p1">They had never heard of Free to Smile. But those three words felt like a lifeline.</p><p class="p1">With borrowed money, packed meals, and trembling hearts, they made the 150 km journey to Kolkata.</p><p class="p1">It wasn’t just a physical journey. It was a crossing—from despair into possibility.</p><p class="p1"> </p><p class="p1"> </p><p class="p1">In November 2024, Mithi had her first surgery.</p><p class="p1">The team from Free to Smile welcomed her not as a case, but as a child. With dignity. With care. With love.</p><p class="p1">When her parents saw her after the surgery, they couldn’t speak. They simply held her and cried.</p><p class="p1">The mark of shame was gone. And in its place was a smile.</p><p class="p1">A real one. A radiant one. A promise of the life ahead.</p><p class="p1">That day, they saw the daughter they had always imagined—and the future they had almost given up on.</p><p class="p1">And something unexpected began to happen.</p><p class="p1">Back in Bongaon, people noticed.</p><p class="p1">The whispers were different now.</p>								</div>
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									<p class="p1">“Where did you go?”</p><p class="p1">“Can they help others too?”</p><p class="p1">Mithi’s face was no longer a reason for shame. It became a symbol of change.</p><p class="p1">When they returned for her follow-up a few months later, her parents stood taller. They were no longer victims of ignorance. They were ambassadors of hope.</p><p class="p1">In November 2025, they will come came again—this time for her cleft palate surgery.</p><p class="p1">And it was done. Just like before. With care. With kindness. With life-changing precision.</p><p class="p1"> </p><p class="p1">Today, Mithi is thriving.</p><p class="p1">She eats well. Laughs more. Babble-talks to herself. Plays with her fingers. And smiles—a lot.</p><p class="p1">Her family no longer hides her. They hold her proudly.</p><p class="p1">They know now that their daughter is not a curse, but a gift.</p><p class="p1">And they are not alone.</p><p class="p1">At that same mission, Little Ritam Sasmal got his lip repaired and returned later for palate correction.</p><p class="p1">Each smile, each surgery, a quiet revolution.</p><p class="p1">And every single one of them—made possible because someone like you chose to care.</p><p class="p1">Someone who believed that a cleft shouldn’t define a child.</p><p class="p1">Someone who saw not deformity—but potential.</p><p class="p1">Someone who gave not out of excess—but out of empathy.</p><p class="p1"> </p><p class="p1">Mithi’s father, overwhelmed, said:</p><p class="p1">“I cannot repay this gift. But I can tell her, one day, how people who never knew her gave her the power to smile.”</p><p class="p1">That is what this work is. Not just surgery. But soul work.</p><p class="p1">It is the act of restoring dignity. Of healing more than a face. Of breaking generations of shame.</p><p class="p1">But we cannot stop now.</p><p class="p1">Because for every Mithi, there are hundreds still waiting.</p><p class="p1">Still being blamed. Still suffering. Still hoping someone will come.</p><p class="p1">You can be that someone.</p><p class="p1">When you give, you don’t just fund a procedure.</p><p class="p1">You change a life. A family. A community.</p><p class="p1">You replace shame with pride. Silence with song. Tears with a smile.</p><p class="p1">You give what every child deserves—freedom.</p><p class="p1">The freedom to smile.</p>								</div>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2025 18:37:21 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><strong>Author: EBMA foundation<br />Date: June 2025<br />Tags: Cleft Awareness</strong></p>
<p class="p1">Hey there, friend.</p>
<p class="p1">Have you ever seen a baby with a small gap in their lip or the roof of their mouth? That’s called a cleft. It&#8217;s not a rare thing — in fact, thousands of babies in India are born with it every year. But many people still don’t really know what it is, or what it means for a child’s life.</p>
<p class="p1">Let’s change that today. This won’t be a medical lecture — promise. Just talking about a medical challenge that many children in India face.</p>
<p class="p1">So, What Exactly Is a Cleft?Imagine this: during the early weeks of pregnancy, a baby’s face slowly starts forming — the lips, nose, and mouth coming together like puzzle pieces. Sometimes, for reasons we’re still figuring out, those puzzle pieces don’t fully connect. That’s when a cleft happens.</p>
<p class="p1">It could be a small gap in the upper lip (cleft lip), a hole in the roof of the mouth (cleft palate), or sometimes both. And no, it’s not caused by something the mother did wrong.</p>
<p class="p1">But Why Does It Happen More in India?</p>
<p class="p1">Let’s be real — India has its unique challenges. Here are some of the main factors:</p>
<p class="p1">Nutrition during pregnancy: Many expectant mothers in rural areas don’t get enough folic acid or vitamins. This is a major risk factor.</p>
<p class="p1">Lack of awareness: A lot of families don’t know the importance of prenatal check-ups or supplements.</p>
<p class="p1">Environmental factors: Pollution, contaminated water, and even pesticide exposure can raise the risk.</p>
<p class="p1">Genetics: Yep, sometimes it just runs in families.</p>
<p class="p1">Now here’s the kicker — most of this can be prevented or treated. But still, a child is born with a cleft in India every 30 minutes. And in too many cases, they don’t get the help they need.</p>
<p class="p1">But Can’t They Just Live with It?</p>
<p class="p1">Well, think about this. Try saying “banana” without touching your lips together. Or drinking water with a straw when there’s a hole in the roof of your mouth. Not easy, right?</p>
<p class="p1">Kids with cleft often struggle to:</p>
<p class="p1">Eat without choking</p>
<p class="p1">Speak clearly</p>
<p class="p1">Breathe properly</p>
<p class="p1">Be accepted by society</p>
<p class="p1">And that last one? It’s the hardest. Many children are teased, isolated, or even hidden away. Just because of how they look.</p>
<p class="p1">There’s a Beautiful Solution: Surgery</p>
<p class="p1">Here’s the good news. A cleft surgery is simple, safe, and life-changing. It usually takes less than two hours. That’s shorter than a movie! And in that time, a child can gain the ability to smile, eat, and speak — often for the first time.</p>
<p class="p1">But surgery needs awareness. It needs trained doctors. And yes, it needs money. That’s where we — you and me — come in.</p>
<p class="p1">Because once you see the difference it makes, you’ll never forget it.</p>
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